Can’t stand those people talking behind my back. Say it infront of my face and we’ll try to find a way to deal with it. But if you’re dumb, well…
If you find me very secretive. I accept that, in one way or another, I am a chattery person. I talk a lot to reliable people. To people that I am comfortable with. To people that shares their thoughts with me as much of a muchness as I do. If you’re shareable, why not? I open up when I know you’re trustworthy enough. It’s hard for me to trust anyone and even harder today. I dont wanna jeopardize myself from keeping anything about me to blabby ones. So if I cant share it with you, respect.
If you find me unapproachable, precisely because you’re unapproachable too. I can be as friendly as you want me to be and I can be hostile as you wouldn’t wish me to be. I try to fit in to groups that I feel out of place, not to the extent that it’s more of a hi-im-trying-to-fit-in game than wow-im-fitting-in-already. I get tired, who doesn’t? If it’s not my world, let it be.
If you got a problem with my unreplied messages, bear with that. I dont own a loading company, I can’t have credits all the time. I am not free 24/7 to check my phone and fb, so basically you’ll get a late reply. If I don’t reply, prior to the credits, it’s either I don’t have anything to say or I simply didn’t like your message. Nevertheless, I still understand those seened messages. No “Thank you, Kathy”, not even a two lettered word “ty” yet you judge me quickly.
Forming an opinion is different from judging without a hitch. Once you are being true, people will judge you quickly but they are slow in correcting themselves. Grow up, start now.

